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大六夫妇（千手观音）和我周边的九州朋友们（菩萨众僧）给了我三方面帮助：精神的，物质的，事业方面的，使我的精神从茫然慢慢变得开朗；物质生活从白手起家变得丰富多彩，工作事业从不自信变得目标明确充实繁忙，如果不是我亲身经历，我真觉得是天方夜谭。
说来也怪，当我们成为单亲家庭的母子两人时，比起一家三口时，伸出援手的人反倒增加了很多，同情之心人皆有之呵！离婚之后，千手观音让我好象活在了人间天堂。
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决定离婚后，我和孩子不愿意再住那令人伤心的，依靠前夫的母亲才有资格居住的市营住宅。大六先生伸出了援助之（宝殿）手。
他和楼下的房主商量，由大六先生做保证人，租借给我们了一套三居室。此处因长期无人居住，经他的劝说：与其无人居住，不如廉价出租为好，租金由5万日元降到3.5万日元。（和市营住宅房租相同）托大六的福，住房的问题顺利的解决了，直接交付当月的租金就住了进去，省去了所有的.一大堆的.乱七八糟的.等等的，加起来相当五个月的预付金。（这三居室，在东京要12万日元左右，再加上乱七八糟的，就更可怕了吧？）
更让我们放心的是，大六夫妇就住在我们楼上，是我们的“顶头上司”，他们想召唤我们时，跺三下脚我们就会心领神会了。每当我们通过这种方式见面时，都会意的笑半天，余下的交谈或茶饮，我们推心置腹，其乐融融。
宝经手和葡萄手（千手观音说：宝经手能保你多闻广学，葡萄手能保你五谷丰登）
在日本，为了大家，我拼命的多闻广学，从而得到了学生的爱戴，得到了”五谷丰登“的收获。
事业工作方面：成立了中国艺术研究所。
内容：中国传统艺术（1中国画. 2书法. 3篆刻）
中国纤维艺术（4艺术壁挂. 5艺术时装 ）
一 .教室
我原本在读卖新闻文化中心有三个教室；
离婚后，九州的上海堂（文房四宝会社）的社长又特意带了几个人到我家里来学习，在上海堂也开了两个教室，同时，在福冈又开通了一个30人的教室，这样在上海堂有了四个教室；
我还在家里另外开了两个教室；
更令人感动的是：好几个人都是同时选三种课程：绘画，书法，篆刻。上海堂的社长和事物长，只是为了增添人数而来，他们的善意全在不言中了。
这样加起来教室共有9个，一时间，学生过百。
后来，我觉得这样的大小教室，参差不齐，影响教学质量，把教室的人数限制在72人，（附庸着孔子弟子三千，贤人 72 的风雅）只要收入能够维持生活即可。但什么时候学生能到累计三千人也就不得而知了。
二 .展览
当我发现，在日本，人们对唐以后的中国书画艺术比较了解，而对秦汉文化艺术还很陌生，我就大量展现秦砖汉瓦，陶文，竹简，封泥，汉印，等等秦汉文化元素强烈的作品。使大家眼前一亮，展览效果可想而知。大家会把你的作品全部买光，不是我的作品水平有多高，而是大家看到了作品中的文化艺术信息量，再有就是，我的作品定价，是大家很容易接受的价格，（我请上海堂的专业人士来估价，具体的是：场地费.装裱费.创作成本的平均核算，1：1：1）大家知道我的诚意，以心换心。他们买了去，一是新鲜，二是为了帮我，真是两全其美。
三 .篆刻
九州的书道团体很多，各个团体的负责人都会例行拿来笔单，篆刻润例虽然很低，但总比没有好。
四 .纤维艺术
日本人对中国的传统艺术佩服得五体投地，但对中国的现代艺术了解甚少，我办的几次纤维艺术展和时装展，都引起了大家的关注，报纸，电视都做了大篇幅的报道。大家不再把我看成老古董了，我觉得通过我的作品，使大家对中国现代艺术也有了一点一滴的了解，套用小沈阳的话：我老开心了。
通过大家的帮助，我忙得不亦乐乎，有时真希望自己能成为千手观音⋯⋯，我这个凡人，只能是手忙脚乱，废寝忘食的⋯⋯。但因是边学边教，自己也进步很快，收获颇丰。
数珠手（千手观音说：数珠手可保你消退烦恼。）
离婚了，形式上的束缚解脱了，但精神上还是对那个第三者耿耿于怀。失落和寂寞，常常在“忙里偷闲”地钻出来进行骚扰。大六夫妇当然能看出来我情绪的不稳定，经常让夫人叫我去他家聊聊天儿，开导开导什么的。让我尝到了数珠手的恩惠。
最不明智的比较
我总是在我和第三者中间进行比较。我说：我可能是输在年龄上，输在清高和事业心太强上，输在不重视家务事上，输在对梳妆打扮流行时髦毫无兴趣上，这些我都服气，但我怎么也不服的是：她是保姆，又是农村来的，抓住可以改变命运的人，就使出浑身解数来⋯⋯。
大六夫妇微笑着指出，我的思维逻辑错了！
我唠叨最多的是：如果她比我有才能，比我漂亮，比我年龄小，我都能接受，但是，一个什么都不会，从农村来的小保姆，居然⋯⋯！总而言之：都是户口制度闹的！都是：“爱是自私，”“爱不分先后”的流行歌词闹的！
大六先生大笑，说：没想到，没想到，小爱居然也有城市人看不起农村人的人权歧视，小爱竟是如此觉悟呵！保姆怎么了？农村人怎么了？怎么能歧视保姆？歧视地方，歧视农民呢？
大六先生分析说：在小保姆的苦苦等待和你做妻子种种不合格的两者中，既然是你丈夫选择了前者，就说明你丈夫认为和她是般配的。有一点很清楚：你丈夫和你结婚，不是因为你是城市户口，现在选择她，也不是因为她是农村户口。
我说：我最反感的是，前夫在大六夫妇面前，顺势把自己打扮成同情弱者的救世主形象⋯⋯，莫名其妙！
大六先生严肃的说：你要想透离婚的主要原因，要从自身找问题，不能只是一味的和后来者进行比较，这样才能想通，才是名智之举。
宝镜手（千手观音说：宝镜手能保你得到广博的知惠，而通过大六先生的指点我学会了照清自己。）
听了这句话，我开始换位思考，用“宝镜”鉴别一下，我似乎开始有些开窍了⋯⋯
例：小保姆为什么自卑？（照镜子）我一定无意间流露出来过优越感和高人一等的言行。
小保姆怕暴露出自己的地方口音。（照镜子）我一定嘲笑过地方口音的人们。
小保姆把前夫当作男子汉大丈夫。（照镜子）我只把前夫当平等的同事和小弟弟。
前夫欣赏她的温顺。（照镜子）我则是经常自以为是，我行我素。
前夫宁愿接受她，也不愿维持⋯⋯。（照镜子）说明他对我的感情天平已经⋯⋯
等等，等等。
宝镜手告诉我：有比较才有鉴别，换位思考则自知之明，还总是怨天尤人就是自找苦吃，自讨没趣了。
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大六夫妇非常人道的替我着想，怕我失去了正常的生理要求，会很寂寞难耐。又知道我不会到社会上提供的那种合法场所去（因我怕那两种病），他们给我介绍了几位，能够超越法律界限又不会产生家庭和经济纠纷的男士，（也是怕染上⋯⋯）但和他们接触了解后，发现他们对自己的夫人是双重标准时，我也就不再奢望有那种无所属的“纯净之爱”了。大六夫人笑着说：可惜大六先生已年迈，否则就不会袖手旁观了。我们大笑⋯⋯
结果，我就象烈女一样，“引刀割其鼻”式的，从38岁到现在，不再在乎自己的女色了⋯⋯，呜～呜～呜⋯⋯！
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